When I am in Tokyo, I always like to stay at the Miyako Hotel in Shirokanedai. Near Meguro station that are a lot of nice little places to eat, and I really like this one. I’ve been there about 7 times now and the Shabu Shabu is great.
We order a set per person, each with different meats. Usually one beef and one pork for two persons, then perhaps some tempura or other things.